Coming soon
$65
Dinner
Dinner, small group
Coming soonAges 30–55 · Balanced ratio
For adults 30 – 50
Where real conversations spark.
Small, structured dating events with balanced gender ratios and guided prompts — so you stop swiping and start talking. From $25.
Balanced ratio ✦Capped at 14 guests ✦Guided prompts ✦Ages 30–50 ✦No phones at the table ✦Real conversation ✦Balanced ratio ✦Capped at 14 guests ✦Guided prompts ✦Ages 30–50 ✦No phones at the table ✦Real conversation ✦Balanced ratio ✦Capped at 14 guests ✦Guided prompts ✦Ages 30–50 ✦No phones at the table ✦Real conversation ✦
How Ember works
Designed to guarantee real connection.
01
Pick a night
Browse intimate dinners, cocktail tastings, and activities in your city.
02
Designed for conversation
Every event is styled and structured for real talk — 10–14 guests, balanced ratio, no loud rooms.
03
Prompts to spark it
Optional prompt cards at every seat help the interesting questions come out naturally.
This week
Upcoming events
Small rooms, designed for real conversation. Every event capped so no one gets lost in the crowd.
Most popular
$25
Drinks · 2 hrs
Cocktail Hour
Sun, Jun 7 · 7:00pmAges 30–55 · Balanced ratio
Summer fav
$25
Outdoors · 90 min
Golden Hour Walk
Coming soonAges 30–55 · Balanced ratio
The prompts
We hand you the spark. You light the rest.
Optional prompt cards sit at every table — written by relationship therapists and conversation designers. Pick one up when the chat needs a nudge, leave it face down when it's already flowing.
Prompt 01
"What's a belief you've quietly changed your mind about this year?"
Prompt 02
"Where were you most yourself this week?"
Prompt 03
"What's something you'd happily talk about for an hour?"
Prompt 04
"What did you want to be at 16 — and what's left of that?"
Pricing
Real evenings, fair price.
No subscriptions. No swiping. Pay per event — drinks and dinner included where listed.
Glow
$40
Cocktail tastings & lounge nights.
- ✦ 2 hrs
- ✦ First drink included
- ✦ Curated playlist
Questions
Good ones, asked often.
How small are the events?+
Between 10 and 14 guests. Small enough to actually meet everyone, big enough to find your people.
How do you balance the room?+
Tickets release in pairs by gender and within a tight age range, so every event keeps a balanced ratio without us hand-picking guests.
I'm 47, is this for me?+
Yes. Ember is built for adults 30 to 50. Each event has a tighter age range posted upfront so you know who you'll meet. We encourage anyone within +/- 2 years of an event's age range to sign up.
What if it feels awkward?+
It won't. Every seat has prompt cards designed by relationship therapists. A host opens the night and keeps the energy easy.